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Offline tomcatf14g

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prayer request for my cheating wife
« on: May 15, 2011, 02:53:29 PM »
My wife and I have been together for 10 yrs and have two beautiful children together. About 6 months ago she started having multiple affairs on me while I was away at work. One got very serious and she has since moved me out of our home and moved this other man in. Who was also married. Due to him being military I was able to have him removed from my home and to have no further contact with my wife and kids. My wife now hates me for doing this and has since got a restraining order on me. She has continued her behavior now that the other man is out of the picture and is dead set on a divorce.
Despite all she has done I truly do not want a divorce. I want reconciliation. I forgive my wife and I deeply love her. Ever since this has happened I have been praying for my wifes salvation and for god to restore my marriage. I have felt gods word and have heard his answer as to weather I should stay or go. I know god wants me to stay and wants me to be patient and let him do his work. So I'm asking for prayer for my wife Rosie that she may find the lord and come to the end of her self. That she sees the error of her ways and that she will recommit to our marriage. I pray for someone to enter into her life that will lead her to gods true path and not to follow the ways of the world. I need prayer for the restoration of my marriage and of my family. I also need prayer for my self to have patience and have the strength and will to get thru these dark times and my trial by fire. That I can have comfort and peace thru the lord until the day he reununites my wife and i. Please pray for us I'm begging u. We need all the prayer we can get. May god bless u all. And thank you.

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prayer request for my cheating wife
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« Reply #1 on: May 15, 2011, 03:23:10 PM »

Dear Father, I come to You asking that You fulfill this young man's request for his wife to be reconciled with him just because he loves her. Please bring someone into her life as a witness that will lead her to Your word, and let You will be done Father for this husband to continue to have the hope and patience to wait upon Your timing. Thank You Father for hearing this in Jesus' name. Amen.

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« Reply #3 on: May 19, 2011, 12:00:12 AM »
losing faith and hope that my marriage will be restored. Got served with more divorce papers today.  Please pray for me and my wife. Most of all pray for me.  That i dont lose my faith, hope and trust in the Lord in the matter of my marriage.  Pray for my wife that she turn to the lord and back to my marriage.  Ive been praying all day for conformation from the Lord that he will save my marriage.  I need some answers. I need some patience. I need God. I need to know God is still here and still working on my wife and my marriage

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Re: prayer request for my cheating wife
« Reply #4 on: May 19, 2011, 12:27:55 PM »
Dear Tomcat:

My heart goes out to you. It sounds as if you love your wife in spite of everything. I pray:

Father God, we come before you Lord with a spirit of praise on our lips and in our hearts because you are our God and we are your people.  Lord, you're aware of what's going on in Tomcat's marriage and you are the Lord of restoration of all things. I ask now in the name of your holy Son, Jesus the Christ, that you send the Holy Spirit to his wife to encourage her to stop this divorce procedure and that she comes to accept Jesus as her Savior. We place this couple and this situation in your hands Father because you are still on the throne and still in charge of everything. I pray that your will be done. Amen.

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« Reply #5 on: May 21, 2011, 10:20:27 PM »
They say that a lot of times if you end up waiting up to 2 years and just work on yourself, go to counselling and figure out what you did wrong and correct those things in yourself, that 75% of marriages can get back together.  usually by then the women will figure out that the grass is not greener on the other side.  They will hate having to try to provide for themselves and the children.  They will find out that dating is not as much fun as it was when they were 16-21years old. Older people dating tend to more often lie/cheat and withold information (like that they are married) even those who claim to be Christian.  So if she does go through with the divorce, do not give up on her, keep praying. If you do not date, that will even be more welcoming to her coming back, you can tell her that she has only been the one you wanted, it never changed.  My friend did and his wife came back 1 time for about 6 months at the 3 year mark and finally they are remarried for good at the 5 year mark and their marriage is stronger than ever. Have faith that the lord will protect her and keep her safe as she struggles through all of this confusion.  Ask the Lord to show you what areas you need to work on in the meanwhile.  Good luck and God Bless.
Live, Love, Laugh, each and every day- Praise the Lord!! :-)  Psalm 63:3-4 "Because your steadfast love is better than life, my lips will praise you. So I will bless you as long as I live; I will lift up my hands and call on your name."